Welcome to Overcoming Adultery. I’m sorry that you are here, especially if you recently discovered that your spouse has been unfaithful. I know what it’s like and that’s why I started this blog. My hope is that this site will encourage you and help you as you navigate the difficult road ahead. God can help you overcome this devastation. Perhaps, He will also help you rebuild your marriage. It is possible… I’m living proof.
“For you have been given not only the privilege of trusting in Christ but also the privilege of suffering for him. 30 We are in this struggle together. You have seen my struggle in the past, and you know that I am still in the midst of it.” Philippians 1:29-30 NLT There are some very tough days … Continue reading You Are Not Alone Today
For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war according to the flesh, 4 for the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but [b]divinely powerful for the destruction of fortresses. 5 We are destroying speculations and every lofty thing raised up against the knowledge of God, and we are taking every thought captive to the obedience of Christ, 6 and we are ready to punish … Continue reading The Battle Of Your Thoughts
As I write this blog today, it’s exactly 2 years to the day since I discovered my wife’s infidelity. The temptation on “D Day” is to focus on me, my pain, my loss, my damage and my journey. However, if I have learned anything in these past two years trying to recover, it is this: … Continue reading Attitudes for Recovery: Humility
“Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.” – 1 Peter 4:8 NIV Is it possible that love can help you forget your spouse’s betrayal? Well, not exactly. The word used here is “cover”, which is better translated “to veil”. A veil is used to conceal; you know what is there … Continue reading God’s Kind of Love