Welcome to Overcoming Adultery. I’m sorry that you are here, especially if you recently discovered that your spouse has been unfaithful. I know what it’s like and that’s why I started this blog. My hope is that this site will encourage you and help you as you navigate the difficult road ahead. God can help you overcome this devastation. Perhaps, He will also help you rebuild your marriage. It is possible… I’m living proof.
Struggling with faith? Oswald Chambers has an important message for you about the unsurpassed intimacy of tested faith.
At its core, recovery is perseverance in faith that my circumstances can change and become better. The real question is, in “whom” or “what” do you place your faith in? People operate by faith daily because there are countless things in this world that cannot be known.
I’ll never forget the moment my wife disclosed her sexual affair to me. It was like a dream…like it wasn’t real. In a split second my view of her changed. She was no longer beautiful in that moment. All I could picture was her doing things with the other man that for the past 17 … Continue reading All I See Is A Cheater
In Part I, we explored what the Bible says about the nature of forgiveness: it’s offered freely by God and is not contingent on the type of sin committed. Oh, but we want so badly for those who have devastated us to pay the price. Unfortunately, that’s not forgiveness, that’s revenge. What Does Forgiveness Have … Continue reading How To Forgive Adultery, Part II